my thoughts.

i watched 国光帮帮忙 just now and they're talking about divorcing. i wanted to share my thoughts with my readers. actually i don't know where to start either. I'll just say anything that comes out of my mind.


it's happy to see couples marrying but then when it comes to quarreling, fighting and etc, some of them end up divorcing, but some still force themselves not to divorce because of the children's sake. what's the point of getting married if we'll end up divorcing in the end? as for me, i don't think i want to get married due to the whole divorcing thingy. i don't want to see myself being so sad after the whole lousy divorce.


from what i see on 国光帮帮忙, the celebrities that are divorce even have kids. they're so pitiful, they have to leave their children to the children's mother because they're divorce. they only get to see their children once a month, once a year or so due to their job. as a celebrity, they have to work at different countries therefore they cant get to see their children that often.


even when they get to see their children, of course they're happy but, like what i said just now, they couldn't be with their children for a long time because of the whole divorcing thing, and so they'll have to go after being with their children. it's hard to separate a child with his/her parents when they see each other especially when they're young. right?


when the father/mother has to go, the children might ask questions like 'where are you going?', 'why are you leaving me?', stuff like that. what would the parents say? their children are still so young to understand what the stupid thing is divorce.


one of the celebrities, even have to wear a big black specs to cover up his eyes whenever he's leaving his child after the 'reunion' because he's afraid that his kid will see him cry. his kid even told his dad 'you must take care of yourself, dad' and 'remember to wash your socks'. and the lst thing he said is very touching, for me la but i don't know whether is it touching enough for you guys. the kid told his dad ' 你要乖哦，不要乱跑'. words like that usually comes out from a parents mouth not from a chil, but instead the kid told his dad. (okay, i know it's not VERY VERY toiuching, but it's VERY touching)


why do people have to get married? what's the point of getting married anyway? i know there're people out there who is very pro at managing the family and all but then no matter how pro you're at handling your family stuff, you and your wife/husband might quarrel sometimes, no?


2 different background people getting married sure have some or mayb a lots of disagreements. married couples mayb have disagreement on choosing house, colour of the wall, and even who should pay the bills and etc.


well, from my very old-fashion point of view, i think the husband are the one who should pay the bill for.. everything. yes, everthing. when shopping for household goods, water and electricity bills, and whatever bills there are in this world. guys might think that it's so not fair but then guys as in husband are the one who should take care of all these stuff.


from my point of view, before marriage couples and after marriage couples are different. before marriage couples has more time to go out dating and stuff where as for after marriage couples, especially those with babies, has lesser time to go out dating, even if they had the time to go out dating it wouldn't be as fun as when there's no baby. the time of dating would be shorter as babies might have to sleep and stuff. but then, babies are very cute. =)


other than that, there's some more difference between before marriage couples after marriage couples such as before marriage couples can break whenever they want, as long as they don't have the 'feeling' there anymore, it's okay for them to break up. but for after marriage couples, they can't because they've made the promise on the day they got married. the thing when the father say '...不管生老病死， 你xxx愿意吗?' from the minute, he/she says 'i do', the promise is made.


although some says promise are ment to be broken, HAHAHA. but then i thought marriage got something to do with law and stuff? like when we wanted to divorce we'll have to ask a lawyer to help us do the drivocing? see.. marriage is a very 'BIG' thing, it even got something to do with law. unlike those normal non-marriage dating, break whenever we want, be together when we wanted to.


i think i'm starting to talk crap now, i've got nothing else to say for now. hehe. that's all i wanted to share. for those who wanted to get married, think twice before you make your decision, don't regret it in the end. i'm not discouraging people to marry, it's just that i'm sharing my thought. goodbye.